See the Pattern
Recognize what keeps happening and where being dependable may be costing more than you realized.
Rewrite Your Story is a half-day, interactive workshop with Natalie Luke, PhD, and Merit Kahn, followed that evening by Merit's nationally touring one-woman comedy show, Optimistic Personality Disorder™.
It's for people who feel burned out, have too much on their plate or know something at work needs to change—but aren't sure where to begin.
Workshop 1:00–4:30 PM · Live Comedy Show 7:00 PM
You finish one thing and three more show up. You hand something off, but you're still the person checking on it. You try to step back, and somehow you end up pulled right back in.
Maybe you've thought, “It's faster if I just do it myself.” Or, “If I don't do it, who will?” Or simply, “I can't keep doing this.”
You're still getting it done. But you know working this way isn't sustainable.
Some responsibilities are handed to you. Others you take on because you know you can get them done. And even after you delegate something, you may still feel responsible for making sure it gets finished.
The workshop helps you decide what is actually yours, what needs to move and what you want to do differently next.
Being trusted is a strength. But when being capable keeps attracting more responsibility, unclear ownership keeps sending work back to you, or you become accountable for outcomes you don't fully control, trust can begin to have a hidden cost.
Over time, that cost can show up as exhaustion, resentment, burnout or feeling trapped in a job that once felt right.
This isn't another seminar about managing your time better, trying harder or giving yourself another list of things to do.
It's a guided experience designed to help you recognize the pattern you've been repeating, hear the story underneath it, loosen its grip and choose a different response.
Recognize what keeps happening and where being dependable may be costing more than you realized.
Notice the beliefs, identity and assumptions that may be helping keep the pattern going.
Decide what belongs to you, what belongs to someone else, and what needs to be redesigned.
Use humor to loosen the grip of the old story and create room for another possibility.
Imagine how you want to work, lead and live when the old pattern is no longer making the decision for you.
Leave with one decision, boundary, conversation or action that reflects the story you want to live instead.
Awareness → Understanding → Action → Perspective → Vision → Commitment
The afternoon creates awareness, understanding and choice. The evening uses laughter to shift perspective—because sometimes we can't release an old story until we finally see it from another angle.
A guided, interactive leadership experience with Natalie Luke, PhD, and Merit Kahn.
Merit Kahn's inspiring and hilarious one-woman show blends stand-up, storytelling and irreverent optimism to explore life's messiest plot twists.
Natalie helps you recognize and interrupt the patterns. Merit helps you see—and experience—the story differently.
Creator, Producer and Workshop Leader
Leadership Strategist · Researcher · Host of UnCeiling You™
Natalie helps high achievers recognize the stories, responsibility patterns and leadership systems that cause work, decisions and problems to keep finding their way back to them. She is the creator of The Trust Tax™ framework.
Creator, Workshop Leader and Featured Performer
Comedian · International Keynote Speaker · Playwright · Producer
Merit is the creator and performer of Optimistic Personality Disorder™, a hilariously healing one-woman show blending comedy, storytelling and transformational insight.
Hosted by
Community builder and strategic connector Mariette Frey will serve as emcee, welcoming participants and helping guide the experience from the afternoon workshop into the evening performance.
These reviews followed conversations with Natalie about leadership, burnout, responsibility and the Trust Tax™.
“Powerful insights on leadership, burnout, and learning to let go of responsibilities that were never hers to carry.”
— The Making of Me · Podcast host review
“Dr. Luke is smart, conversational, funny, thoughtful and a true leader for women to blaze their own path.”
— Women In... · Podcast host review
“The Trust Tax was thought-provoking and relatable, shedding light on an often unspoken dynamic in organizational systems.”
— Freedom Unlocked · Podcast host review
See why audiences connect so deeply with Merit's blend of comedy, storytelling and transformational insight.
Recognize what keeps happening and where being dependable may be costing more than you realized.
Identify the beliefs and assumptions worth listening for when the old pattern gets activated.
Create room to respond differently instead of automatically doing what you've always done.
Leave with one decision, boundary, conversation or action that reflects the story you want to live instead.
Come for the afternoon workshop and stay for the live comedy show—or join us for the evening show only. Bringing someone with you? Save 20% when you purchase 2 or more Workshop + Show tickets.
Purchase 2 or more and save 20% per person.
The complete afternoon workshop and evening live-show experience for one.
Join us at 7:00 PM for Merit Kahn's Optimistic Personality Disorder™.
In about seven minutes, the Trust Tax™ Assessment will help you understand:
Is there a responsibility pattern problem?
What is the pattern?
What story might be helping keep it going?
What might that pattern be costing you?
Then you can decide whether it's worth spending an afternoon learning how to step out of the pattern and choose a different story.
Take the Free Trust Tax™ Assessment →
About 7 minutes · Personalized results immediately · No name or email required to see your results
See the pattern. Hear the story. Step out of the pattern. Choose the story you want to live instead. And then laugh, gain perspective and leave lighter.
Workshop 1:00–4:30 PM · Live Comedy Show 7:00 PM
Come together and save 20% — 2+ Workshop + Show tickets are $117.60 each.
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